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Relationships

The Relationships dimension (shown in pink) helps you tend the connections that matter. Good relationships rarely fail from a single dramatic moment — they fade quietly from neglect. This dimension makes that neglect visible before it costs you.

Pro feature

Connections is part of Xenith Pro. Relationships' score and its place on your Life Dimensions overview stay free either way.

Tool​

Connections​

Keep a list of the people you want to stay close to, and a sense of when you last truly connected. Rather than a cold contact database, it's a gentle prompt: who have you been meaning to reach out to? Who has gone quiet?

Use it to:

  • Note the people who matter most across different parts of your life.
  • Remember the last meaningful interaction.
  • Nudge yourself to reconnect before too much time passes.

A deliberate, low-pressure approach​

This isn't about turning friendship into a metric. It's about making sure the busyness of life doesn't quietly crowd out the people you care about. A single thoughtful message, prompted at the right time, is the whole point.

Tip

Pair a connection with a Daily Intention: "Call Mom this evening." A relationship tended on purpose beats one left to chance.