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Relationships

The Relationships dimension (shown in pink) helps you tend the connections that matter. Good relationships rarely fail from a single dramatic moment. They fade quietly from neglect. This dimension makes that neglect visible before it costs you.

Pro feature

Connections is part of Xenith Pro. Relationships' score and its place on your Life Dimensions overview stay free either way.

Tool​

Connections​

Keep a list of the people you want to stay close to, and a sense of when you last truly connected. Rather than a cold contact database, it's a gentle prompt: who have you been meaning to reach out to? Who has gone quiet?

Use it to:

  • Note the people who matter most across different parts of your life.
  • Remember the last meaningful interaction.
  • Nudge yourself to reconnect before too much time passes.
  • Tag each person in your own words. You can use several tags ("Family", "Climbing club"), and a few suggestions are one tap away.
  • Set a contact goal if you want one: "about every 14 days". When that many days have passed since you last connected, the person shows a small Due marker. It is a plain prompt, not a score. Anyone without a goal is never marked Due.
  • Record who reached out, with I reached out or They reached out, so the last contact reads "7 days ago, they reached out".
  • Sort by name, longest since contact, most recent contact or Due first, and filter by tag or to show only who is Due.

If you add the Reach out card to your dashboard, it lists the people who are Due and lets you log a contact in one tap. Like the rest of Connections, the card is part of Pro.

A deliberate, low-pressure approach​

This isn't about turning friendship into a metric. It's about making sure the busyness of life doesn't quietly crowd out the people you care about. A single thoughtful message, prompted at the right time, is the whole point.

Tip

Pair a connection with a Daily Intention: "Call Mom this evening." A relationship tended on purpose beats one left to chance.